What he didn't anticipate was how banking would change and how those changes would affect his ambitious daughter. Her string of successes ended rather abruptly when the field became more competitive and unstable. Without fantasies of fast-track success to sustain her, she quickly became bored with the work. Often, she found herself doodling cocktail dresses in the margins of yellow legal pads during office meetings.
This kernel of discontent is the first mental step toward a career change. As the seeds of disillusionment with her progress have grown, she's continued to flirt with the idea of changing careers. In fact, she's moved to New York and is taking classes at a prominent fashion design school at night and on weekends, testing her creativity and developing her skills. Nor is she alone. Some schools estimate that nearly half of all college students are now adults over 25, seeking credentials to switch or advance careers.
"They're returning to the dream they had 10 years ago, with a more realistic perception of what's really possible," says Maureen Brennan, a Loyola University career counselor who advises returning adult students on career options. "They now have their own life experiences to use as a yardstick to measure their own needs and potential. They no longer have to rely on someone else's judgment or perceptions."
Experts such as Harvard sociologist David Riesman believe that the urge to return to school may be a symptom of a more pervasive yearning for greater independence and individualism. Certainly those motivations were uppermost in the mind of one Chicago nurse, whose quest for greater autonomy motivated her to pursue a law degree. Now a medical malpractice attorney, she's part of a growing spectrum of dual-career professionals who are carving out unique niches by combining disciplines. The days of choosing one career for life are gone. Perhaps they should never have existed at all. Isn't it unrealistic to think that the career choice you made at 20 should automatically suit your needs at 30, 40, 50 or 60? It can (and occasionally does) happen. But should you find that your present career no longer suits your needs (and maybe never did), it's not too late to choose again. My oldest career-change client was age 70 when she decided to retire from medicine and pursue a law degree. Somewhere along the line, you may have picked up a distorted idea that the need for growth stops in adulthood. But only people with very limited ambitions learn all they need to know in kindergarten.